– “Sex, a Study of the Good
Bits from Song of Solomon”
So, here in
the context of how to preach SoS,
are some quotes from passages which describe one way to preach the
would encourage you to read today's Pulpit post to see why these are
of Solomon 2:3
"Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved
the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his
was sweet to my taste.
on the husband is biblical. God’s men said, Amen. Ladies, your husbands
appreciate oral sex. They do. So, serve them, love them well. It’s
Right here. We have a verse. The fruit of her husband is sweet to her
she delights to be beneath him.
to do so,” referring to oral sex.]
of Solomon 2:6
"Let his left hand be under my head And his right hand embrace me."
me assure you
of this. If you think you’re being dirty, he’s pretty happy. [Laughter
audience] Our line is at different place. If the wife says, “Is that
“No, that’s wonderful.” She says, in verse 6, “His left arm is under my
and his right arm embraces me.” She’s asking here, in the Hebrew, for
stimulation of her, probably of her clitoris. It’s a part of the
anatomy that has one function, and that is orgasm. It has no other
it’s a wonderful gift that God gives a woman. If you’re a man and your
you don’t know where that is, repent and find it. Very important for
you to do.
But that’s what she’s asking, that he would hold her, and that he would
her, and that he would manually stimulate her, that he would masturbate
She’s asking for that. Women, it is okay to ask for such things. Isn’t
of Solomon 4:5 "Your
two breasts are like two fawns, Twins of a gazelle Which feed among the
. . . When
the petting zoo, what animal is usually included there? Two
twins of a gazelle. Baby animals, baby deer. What he’s talking about
breasts are the petting zoo. And I love to go there and play with them
like two newborn baby deer that are perky, and fun, and happy, and they
they’re exciting, and they’re fun to pet, that’s your breasts. Is that
Gentlemen, that your wife takes her shirt off and that’s the petting
of Solomon 4:12-16 A
garden locked is my sister, my bride, A rock
garden locked, a spring sealed up.
13 "Your shoots are an orchard of pomegranates With choice
fruits, henna with nard plants, 14 Nard and saffron,
cinnamon, With all the trees of frankincense, Myrrh and aloes, along
the finest spices. 15 "You are a garden
spring, A well
of fresh water, And streams flowing from
Lebanon." 16 "Awake, O
And come, wind of the
south; Make my garden breathe out fragrance, Let its
wafted abroad. May my beloved come into his garden And eat its choice
vagina as a
garden. What a great metaphor. Again, it’s frank but not crass. And he
that, “Your vagina is a garden.” It has wonderful smells and it has
tastes. It’s a garden. . . . He talks about how much he loves her
women feel awkward about this. The husband needs to tell the wife,
beautiful. It tastes well. It smells well. You keep yourself well. I
It’s a garden to me.” So she says, upon hearing what he thinks of it,
“ . . . Let my lover come into his garden and taste – there’s the
choice fruits!” She invites him to perform oral sex on her, the wife
many wives wish their husbands would do this, but the husbands don’t?
wives don’t ask. Biblically, the wife has the right to ask. . . . And
invites her husband to perform oral sex on her.
he says, is
like a glass of fine wine that’s opened up. You men need to know this,
single men don’t, but you married men need to know that when a woman is
for lovemaking, like a flower she blooms. It’s beautiful. She opens.
happens is, the color of her vagina and of her lips they redden, they
blood flows into that area, preparing for marital intimacy. And what he
is, as she’s dancing, “Oh, you’ve bloomed.” And it’s like a wonderful
wine. It’s that color and it’s that taste.